The girls stopped eating most of their bottles a few weeks ago. It was like they were on strike. We asked around and googled for insight. We learned something. We were using the wrong nipples. You can buy baby bottle nipples with different flow rates. You give higher flow rated nipples as the babies […]
[Continue reading…]Are you putting the pieces of the puzzle together?
Jen was frustrated with me. We were talking about something that was on going for two months. I was giving her bits and pieces. She asked a question. I’d go back into something I told her about 4 weeks before and talk about that. She asked another question. I fast forward to another conversation […]
[Continue reading…]Just tell the story
Jen looked at me frustratedly. I sighed deeply, exasperated. We’d been talking for 10 minutes getting nowhere. She cried out, “This is going all over the place. Just tell me what happened!” Another sigh released from me. I went to the beginning of the story. Two months ago, I drove over a […]
[Continue reading…]What will you give?
Will you give yourself permission to be uncomfortable today? Will you give yourself permission to be more than who you were yesterday? Will you give yourself permission to dig a hole for you to get out of tomorrow? Will you give yourself permission to seek that spark of an idea? Will you give […]
[Continue reading…]Are you asking for permission or wisdom?
Instead of asking ‘What do you think I should do?” ask someone “How would you go about doing this?” It moves the person you’re asking past the decision whether you should or shouldn’t. It gives them permission to talk about something they might not do themselves. It gives them permission to imagine a little bit. […]
[Continue reading…]What do you think I should do?
What do you think I should do? This is the question I’ve asked too many times (I still do). Sometimes I didn’t ask – but I let people answer for me anyway. We ask this thinking that it will help us when we’re trying to decide. It usually won’t. We might think we’re asking […]
[Continue reading…]Are you getting caught in the idea trap?
I remember stepping on the Lego piece with my bare foot. I screamed, cursing. A cubic, sharp pebble cutting into my foot. It hurt! Yesterday, I talked about how building ideas is like playing with Legos. “The ideas are the blocks. Putting them together is the execution.” If you’re an “idea guy” (or gal), […]
[Continue reading…]How do you win the battle of will?
I love feeding my girls. They’re 7 months old. They don’t know what they’re doing. It’s a socio-science experiment. What will they like? What will they hate? Will they clamp their mouth shut? Will Ellie like one thing and Evie another? Jen and I treat every bite like it’s fun and tasty. “Mmmmmm”, “Yummmyyyyy”, “Yaaaaaaay”. […]
[Continue reading…]Are you playing with Legos or with Jenga?
Building ideas is like playing with Legos. It’s not like playing Jenga. Your ideas are the blocks. Putting them together is the execution. The nice thing about Legos … You can build one thing, take it apart and build something completely different. You have the flexibility to innovate and pivot. You can go back […]
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