A simple way to be a better leader – Part 1

Leading your team to leap

In the past few days I saw a simple truth about the language of leadership. Ned and Nancy were trying to get their son to get into the pool.  Their son, Niles, was scared of the water. “Do you want to get in the pool?” asked Ned.  “Do you want to try to stand on […]

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How do you find your way home…

The pastor, Paul’s, voice was thrown from the ceiling speakers.  Dave stared into space.  Paul spoke about the power of confession.  The cleansing and healing that comes when we confess to another person.  Dave sat.  A 1000 yard stare.  He looked lost.  Distant.  Like someone who could not see beyond the miles of brokenness that led him […]

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Follow the leader

I walked down the row of cubes.  Someone from my team grabbed me.  “They did it again.”, they said.  We had another team that we worked with.  We didn’t see eye to eye.  We didn’t have mutual respect.  It seemed each team thought the other team was a bunch of idiots.  I got fired up. […]

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Do you lead by example?

My mentor, Phillip, asked, “Where’d this thing with you putting your hands in the pockets come from?”   I didn’t know the answer.   It appeared that I just picked up a habit of sticking my hands in my suit pockets.  And I didn’t know why.  A no-no in the world of presenting is hands […]

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Leadership is a contact sport

I don’t enjoy playing basketball shirts vs skins.   I just don’t enjoy sweaty men pressing and bumping into me. It affects my commitment level. I don’t play as hard. It’s not fair to my team for me to play and not be committed to the contact required of the game.  When shirts are on, […]

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Is Something is better than nothing?

We knocked on the door.  Dogs barked.  We stood waiting.  The dogs stopped.  Jen texted Henry to let him know we were at his door.   A minute later his girlfriend opened the door.  It was our first time to meet.  We walked in. Henry was in an explosion last week.  He experienced burns that […]

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The problem with the perfect plan

Perfect is a lie

I was listening to Car Talk on NPR.  Click and Clack were following up with a caller from an earlier show.  The caller wanted to transport a chicken coop via the highway on a snowmobile trailer.  Click and Clack told him it wouldn’t work.  They were right. Chicken Coop guy’s perfect plan was changed in […]

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Finish or fail … how to cross the finish line

I started looking for photos and links for my content more lately.  The goal was a more polished product.  It was also better Google ranking and more readers.  The work doubled the time to write and publish.  It became hard to to finish. My main goal here is to write and finish.  It’s to cultivate […]

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Would you rather be needed or wanted?

Would you rather be needed or wanted?

The exercise started.  I was getting up to work the room.   A thought struck me.  “They don’t need me.”  I was hit with a sense of deflation.  It was a “What’s the point?” moment.   I was at Boot Camp.   The irony, or hypocrisy, I’m working at a program built to help people […]

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Find meaning and significance in life

Finding Meaning and Significance

The breeze blew firmly off the lake. We sat. The breeze brushing briskly in our faces. The hot sun bathing us from behind. Our church met at the Lake this weekend. We celebrated the lake’s 100th anniversary. Andrew, our Pastor, started speaking. He suggested that we all want to have a life that was meaningful […]

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