Who are you to decide?

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  “She’s not interested,” is what I thought to myself. I use my calendar for a to do list.  If something doesn’t get done, I just drag it to another day.  I looked over calls I didn’t make yesterday, dragging them to new time slots.  I picked this idea up from Peter Bregman.  I was […]

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Ask, Don’t Tell?

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  My friend’s team was filled with some ridiculously smart people.  They were smart with technology. They just weren’t people smart.  He was telling me about the challenges they had working together. I had lunch with another friend a couple of months ago.  He told me how he had learned to make people be part […]

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How much is pain worth?

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  He said, “You know how we have to protect the foundation.  Sometime we have to be aggressive.”  I was talking to a friend I used to work with.  He worked on a team that had an us vs. them mentality.  It created issues sometimes. They didn’t always ask the questions they needed answered when […]

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How to have your cake and eat it, too.

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I watched the 4 year old boy try to get entire cake from mom.  Like a good mother, she does not allow the 4 year old to have the whole cake.  She offers a bite.  He refuses it.  He wants the entire thing. Think big.  Push boundaries.  Be bold.  Be unreasonable about what you want […]

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How are you making it easier?

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I’m beating this horse this week. The girls stopped eating.  We found out their bottles flow rating was too low.  Babies won’t work too hard to eat.  They’d rather not eat … then drive their parent crazy as the scream because they’re hungry. We bought them new nipples.  They make it much easier for the […]

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What why are you giving?

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  I learned recently that babies won’t work too hard to eat.  They’ll stop eating if their nipple makes them work to get the milk.  We learned this because our girls stopped eating a few weeks ago.  We bought new nipples with higher flow.  They ate faster than ever. Babies don’t know that food is […]

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What’s your nature?

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  The girls stopped eating most of their bottles a few weeks ago.  It was like they were on strike.  We asked around and googled for insight.  We learned something. We were using the wrong nipples.  You can buy baby bottle nipples with different flow rates.  You give higher flow rated nipples as the babies […]

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Are you putting the pieces of the puzzle together?

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  Jen was frustrated with me.  We were talking about something that was on going for two months.  I was giving her bits and pieces.  She asked a question.  I’d go back into something I told her about 4 weeks before and talk about that.  She asked another question.  I fast forward to another conversation […]

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Just tell the story

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    Jen looked at me frustratedly.  I sighed deeply, exasperated.  We’d been talking for 10 minutes getting nowhere.  She cried out, “This is going all over the place.  Just tell me what happened!”   Another sigh released from me.  I went to the beginning of the story. Two months ago, I drove over a […]

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What will you give?

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    Will you give yourself permission to be uncomfortable today? Will you give yourself permission to be more than who you were yesterday? Will you give yourself permission to dig a hole for you to get out of tomorrow? Will you give yourself permission to seek that spark of an idea? Will you give […]

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