Do you want to be “One and done”?

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I plugged the cable in.  No sound.  Nothing.  Then I tried another cable.  Again.  Nothing. Thirty people were sitting around.  Waiting.  I took someone else’s guitar.  Plugged it in.  It worked. I threw the strap around my neck.  And stepped up to the microphone.  3 and half minutes flew by in the blink of an […]

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Out of the eyes of babes

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  Jen walked out of the girl’s room.  Ellie in her arms.  She just woke up.  Her eyes swollen with sleep.  I sat on the couch, typing away. Ellie looked at me for a glance.  Then she stared at the laptop.  It’s a reflex.  If we’re looking at our phones, the girls look at our […]

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Acting a part

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  Actors spend hours preparing.  Learning lines.  Committing to the words until they own them.  Knowing their blocking (where they stand and when).  They prepare for the risk.  The big moment.   When they step on stage.  When they reveal themselves in real time.  In front of many, hopefully.  Trying to break a leg. Actors […]

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Do you prefer it fast or slow?

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To ask or not to ask? The prospect you won’t call because she might reject you?  You’re rejecting them already with your avoidance.    The girl you won’t ask out.  The book you won’t start.  The investor you won’t pitch. Etc. Etc. Etc. One rejection is explicit and fast.  The other is quiet and slow. […]

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What are you addicted to?

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  “She’s getting so big.”  A tear welled up in my eye. My girls aren’t little babies anymore.  They’re turning into toddlers.  With wills and tempers.  They’re starting to look like little people.   And I’m sad. I’m a mourner.  I look back and mourn what’s passed.  I could look forward and embrace what’s coming. […]

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What are you avoiding?

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I was reading the article.  I wanted to stop.  I was afraid.  What if they reveal a theory I’ve been working on but haven’t released to the world yet.   I was afraid of being disappointed.  In myself, for not getting the idea out soon enough.  Avoiding the article wouldn’t help though. If my idea […]

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Are you succeeding?

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  Roombas are robotic vacuum cleaners.  The roll around the floor vacuuming your room while you’re away.  They are successful because they keep moving after they encounter an obstacle.  They If they didn’t do this, they’d just suck.  They are successful because they succeed. Most ladders have many rungs.  We succeed from rung to rung […]

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This, I believe.

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  His wife said, “This is going to be hugely successful.”   “How do you know?” he asked.  “With every other business there’s been a hesitation.  You’d always ask the question, “what do you think I should do?   Now, you have no doubt.” Confident = With Faith He believes.  In his idea.  In his team. […]

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Is it about time?

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  I left the house this morning at 6:30am.  2 hours earlier than usual.  I usually help with feeding, changing, playing with the girls.  This morning, I had a 7 am meeting.  I didn’t even get to say good morning to the girls.  And Jen had to manage the juggling act of caring and feeding […]

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Easy to please. Easier to displease.

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  My wife, Jen, was exasperated with me.  I don’t remember what the back and forth was about.  There are too many times to choose from. “You’re so hard to please!” she said. “No, I’m not.  I’m easy to please … I’m just easier to displease.” This is not the best thing to think about […]

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