Do it right. Get it done.

Sometimes I get caught up in trying to making something be right. I’ll look for the perfect image for a presentation. Or the ideal color for a header. It’s easy to get sucked into details. The details could make something perfect if they were right. The value the perfection adds isn’t worth the price of […]

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Want to get better at something?

We usually suck at things that are new to us. Life is full of learning curves. The only way to climb the curve is to do the work. Sucking at something sucks. It’s frustrating. It can be discouraging. If you don’t do the work, you’ll be stuck living a life that is discouragingly frustrating. That […]

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How do I find myself?

I looked at the clock. It was 12:13am. I’d been working for the last 11 hours without a break. I was building a website for a cause I believed in. I lost myself. Time evaporated. I was engaged in solving a problem. Progress was made. I felt good about how I spent my energy as […]

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Where’s your resume?

I work with people to help them manage change.  When things go well, they produce results that they weren’t able to produce on their own.  This is a common outcome. I speak to many clients who want to leave their job.  Their obstacle:  Their resume isn’t ready.  They’ll wallow in misery rather than write their […]

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Will you let your people resume?

Some companies fire employees they catch working on their resume.   Some let people go when they find their resume on Monster or some other job posting site.  That’s odd to me. Do they want employees who don’t want to work for them?  What kind of service do those employees deliver?  How committed are they […]

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Has evolution evolved?

Life started on this planet as single cell organisms. At some point they connected, unified and evolved.  Adaptation created diversity.  Over time, consolidation would favor the stronger adapters. Corporations are people (per the U.S. Supreme Court).   People are single cell organisms. We connect, unify and emerge as corporate bodies. Corporations are the next step […]

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The habit habit

I got out of the habit of good habits. My Mom visited me a few weeks ago.  The following week I celebrated a birthday over the course of a few days.   Then we welcomed a new nephew to our family.   We spent time in the hospital and visiting.   I loved seeing my Mom. […]

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What are you waiting for?

Nothing can make you happy!   This is a very positive and hopeful statement. Nothing can make you happy.  It’s possible.   If you let it be. Most of us are waiting for someone or something to make us happy.  I’ll be happy when I get the raise, the business is profitable, my marriage is […]

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What bed are you sleeping in?

I got an email from a friend a few weeks ago.  Leslie was looking for advice.  She was trying to make a decision.   The looming fear behind the decision was “What if it doesn’t work or if I don’t like it?”   She didn’t want to make a bed or lay in one … […]

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Are you a champion?

I hear bad advice a lot.  The most common I people tell each other is “You should just do ‘insert action’.” You don’t ask your infant to walk when they can’t even crawl.   Why do we ask adults to do things that they haven’t demonstrated an ability to do?  Just because you know how […]

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