I left the house this morning at 6:30am. 2 hours earlier than usual. I usually help with feeding, changing, playing with the girls. This morning, I had a 7 am meeting. I didn't even get to say good morning to the girls. And Jen had to manage the juggling act of caring and feeding on her own. At 6pm the phone rang. I answered. It didn't sound good. I heard Jen talking. Screaming babies drowned what she was saying. Neither girl would eat. Both were crying. Jen was … [Read more...]
A picture’s worth a thousand words
May 16, 2012 by
We think in pictures. If someone asks you to think of a million dollars, you think of a pile of cash or a filled out check. There might be some language written on the check ... but the language is part of a picture. There's a simple reason for this. Language isn't real. Words are an invention. We use words to represent the pictures we see in our head. People we speak to paint a picture in their head based on the words we use. Many of us don't use words well. They're … [Read more...]
Live for what’s at stake
August 2, 2011 by
I love steak. I wouldn't know I loved it if I hadn't ever smelled or tasted a steak. I wouldn't love steak because I wouldn't know steak. Jen was telling me about a girl she's friendly with. The friend comes off as aloof and distant. Jen's learning that the girl thinks that people won't want to talk to her if she talks. So she doesn't talk. People think she's aloof and distant. They don't talk to her. She gets what she expects. She doesn't get what she wants or needs. I'm that … [Read more...]
