When we run from something, the origin is always the reference point. We don’t think in terms of where we’ve gotten, our success. We think of how far we are from what we don’t want. What we don’t want still defines who we are. The origin takes on a gravity. It has a mental mass in our minds. We feel it’s pull …. Mmmmm, Donuts! … We don’t see where we are. We see how far we are from where we were. Our life is defined by our past.
Have you ever woken from a dream wondering if it was a dream? The human mind is unable to tell the difference between a vividly imagined event and one that has actually occurred.
The destination has a gravity also. It can draw us towards our desired outcome. To be drawn forward we need to know clearly where we want to go.
Create in your mind a vividly imagined, compelling destination. The more vivid the greater the gravity.
Dwell in your destination. Tether you life, your mind, your actions to it. It will draw you towards it.